[转帖]Is there true friendship between opposite sex?(异性之间存在真正的友谊吗

works007

When I was a college student ,I had several opposite sex friends and we got al
ong with each other.We treated each other as if there was no sexual difference b
etween us.It didnot effect on the relationship between my girl friend and me .
  I took it for granted that there is true friendship between opposite sex befor
e I met Miss Li.
  But since I came to a corp after I graduated,all changed----it meaned I met Mi
ss Li.Gradually,I liked to talk with her,liked to stay alone with her,played wit
h her...and if she showed more familiar with someone else,I would feel enviously
!
  I take her as  my best friend ---but it is different from the old friendship I
ever had,though I love my girlfriend at the same time.Then do I love ,or like,h
er?I don't know!
  Is there true friendship between opposite sex,or more awful----can one love se
veral lovers at the same time?
  Oh,Oh,my God,I 'll be mad!
  My friend,could you help me?Please!
  Save me!Save me...

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-20 17:45:51编辑过]

works007

As far as i am concerned,there should be some certanty of pure friendship betwee
n male and female.It can be mantained , as long as you subdue it .I meant,the em
otion of feeling deep down is controllable. So,it is also destroied on the other
hand,like a fragile glass.

works007

<PRE>what is the human? what is the animal? and what is male and female?as far as know,</PRE><PRE>people got a most important difference with animal on the attitude about sex , </PRE><PRE>people do not only want sex but also rather need affection; especially for women, </PRE><PRE>and this is basic point.animal want a sexual fellow just for their offspring, </PRE><PRE>this is natural phenomenon , nothing can change it.obviously, human also are </PRE><PRE>animal; we just had more complicated emotion, but frankly,i could not face a </PRE><PRE>beauty with standoffishness for longtime as a real man, and also i would </PRE><PRE>persue her through dating, if i thought we were compatible with each other. </PRE><PRE>certainly,one condition must be met at first, i am single.so that affection </PRE><PRE>couldn't be avoided between the men n women anyway.that is why i never believe </PRE><PRE>about that what oppsite sex friend is existed in the world.if that is really </PRE><PRE>existence, that should be a miracle.   </PRE>

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works007

<PRE>I really hope the existance of true friendship between men and women.</PRE><PRE> now I feel a little bit sad. I tried to hold it but failed.The pure </PRE><PRE>feeling at our childhood is far away.When men and women grew up, some are</PRE><PRE> colder; some are closer. the latter relationship will beyond common,it </PRE><PRE>composed of love and like.maybe this kind of feeling is more than like,</PRE><PRE>less than love.perhaps it is animal's nature. I have ever had opposite </PRE><PRE>sex friend,sometimes I even thought him as my brother.I liked to share </PRE><PRE>happy or sad things with him. He always cared me a lot.this relationship </PRE><PRE>was broken until I told him I had my boy friend.He was very angry,he told me </PRE><PRE>that he always loved me in his heart.It made me suprised.From then on He said</PRE><PRE> goodbye to me.for a long time, I am in bad moving.I lost my good friend. </PRE><PRE>if I can, I want to be his forever friend. </PRE>

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yunyun

<P>刚从水区过来</P><P>原来斑竹E文这么厉害 PFPF</P>

LK801114

<P>as far as I am  concerned, actually and obviously,true friendship between opposite sex exists,and it can maintain forever. It is all known that everyone would have one or more opposite sex friend whatever they are ordinary friend or colse friend.surely, may be some of them develop this friendship into lovership afterward, meanwile, however, most of them are still a  common friend not boy/girl friend.</P>
<P>In one's life, it is inevitable that we would appreciate opppsite sex more or less, all of them would be  lovers of your? certainly the answer is no.so I think  works007 could analyse the relationship betwwen you , your girlfriend and so called miss li.If  they are all lovership ,you should make a choise carefully.</P>
<P>finally, good luck! my friend</P>

[此贴子已经被作者于2004-11-27 11:24:08编辑过]

wszbd

good luck! my friend