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发表于 2005-1-16 14:04:00
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First off, I want to give a sincere apology for not writing in a long
time. For most of you I have not written since I left for Africa in late
April. As you know, I was there for 5 months working in an orphanage.
I worked in a nursery with abandoned babies. Some of them were as young
as 1 day but most of them were a few months old. There were also several
toddlers in the nursery ages 1 to 3. My job was to take care of these
children until they could be adopted into a good home. By "take care of" I
mean feed, burp, play with, dress, and yes - change diapers! In fact I
probably changed over 5000 diapers during my time at the orphanage!! It
seems too big of a number but there were over 30 babies. Each baby is fed
and changed at least every 3 hours so...well, I'm not much of a math student
but it was a lot of diapers! In any case, it was a busy but rewarding 5
months.
I met some great people during my time away at the orphanage. And made
some great friends. One interesting thing about this experience was meeting
people from all over the world. Every where from Austria to USA to France,
to Ireland, to Australia, to England and yes some Canadians too. Two of my
favorite friends I met while away were from Austria, both of which were
named Anna - which is quite a coincidence because that has been my favorite
name for several years. Some other good friends I made while away are from
America - Alicia (from I forget where) and Kelby from Texas. Of course I
made some good Canadian friends as well - Sandra and Jodi from Calgary and
"Cat" (short for Cathy) from Vancouver. Perhaps my best friend while away
was Joseph from Edmonton. His family is Chinese and he can speak a little
(much better than I) but he has lived in Canada all his life. He was the
only other boy working at the nursery most of my time there so we of course
became great friends. It's nice to live in this modern world as the
internet makes staying in contact with new friends from around the world
quite easy - but I guess I do not have to tell you that.
I also made quite a few South African friends who worked at the orphanage
- some were full time workers and others only weekly volunteers that lived
in the area. Work at the orphanage was quite busy and most of the time we
worked from 6am to 6pm with one free day each week. On my free days I would
sometimes visit with my local friends but most of the time I played with the
children living at the orphanage who were older. You see the family that
started this orphanage 12 years ago has adopted 21 children ages 3 to 13.
All of them live in the same house so it is indeed a busy place! When I had
a day off I would often spend a good part of my day playing with the
children or talking with the teenagers that lived at the orphanage. I have
taken lots of pictures and will be sure to send some to all of you in the
future with my emails.
All in all, it was a great experience, one that I will never forget.
Much like teaching in China and meeting all of you. Which brings me to my
next point. When I left China over a year ago, I had sincerely planned on
coming back to teach and visit my friends there for a few months beginning
in February of 2005. However now that the time is at hand, I am afraid it
is no longer a possibility. I'm very sorry. I may not have many good
qualities; however I am an honest man. As I think you all came to know, or
at least I hope you did. When I left China I had sincerely planned on
coming back in February of 2005. I was so sure that it was going to happen.
But sometimes things don't work out the way you planned. All of us know
this.
As you may remember, when I finished high school over 3 and a half years
ago I did not go to University afterwards because I had wanted to pay for it
on my own, and perhaps travel as well. So, I did. I have been spending all
of the money I made from work on travels among other things and still did
not have enough to cover it. Luckily I was fortunate enough to have my
parents to help me as well because I would never have had enough if it
wasn't for them. I definitely do not regret my travels or experiences.
Definitely not. I will always be grateful that I have had such luck. But I
have always been planning to go to University and am still planning too. As
I planned I will be beginning University in September of 2005. I have
already been accepted. During the past few years I have slowly realized
that I will not be able to pay for University on my own, but I am still
hoping to keep working as I am now and save up what I can, perhaps even
enough for my first year. Then I plan to have a part time job while at
University to cover some of my expenses. I am very fortunate to have such
patient parents and they will help me with the rest. It would be selfish of
me to leave home again, instead I will stay and continue to work and save.
I am disappointed that I will not be able to return to China this year as
I had hoped, but I am also very grateful to have at least had the
opportunity to visit there at all and meet some of the people I have met. I
am also quite grateful to have such a great family and such great friends
here at home. So I certainly can't complain.
I hope my news does not disappoint any of you much. I'm sure it won抰,
as I know you will understand.
I look forward to any of your replies in the future. And I will be sure
to reply much sooner than I have this past year.
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